Monday, September 25, 2006

this past saturday, we had a neighborhood bbq. my neighbor and i organized it. i think it went really well, it rained all morning but the afternoon turned out really well. my kids even got a little lesson in prayer. together, the 3 of us, on the way to the grocery store, asked God to not let it rain and postpone our picnic. later that night i reminded them how God had answered our prayer and we praised him together.
a lot of the neighborhood came out and we met some new people and got to know others better. james and i realized how much of an opportunity we have to be witnesses for Christ right here in our little community. we are becoming good friends with our next door neighbors, mark and margie. they are in their 40's but have a 8 month old son, adam. please pray for them if you think of it. they have already come to our church bbq and were very impressed by how "young" our church was and they couldnt get over how nice everyone was. this was so different than the churches they were used to. i think they are interested as they keep asking questions, but margie was a little put off when she realized women were not allowed to speak during the meetings.
i think neighborhood bbq's are wonderful ways to get to know your neighbors and get an "in" to be able to let your neighbors know you and be a witness. even if you have lived in your neighborhood for years, throw a block party! get to know your neighbors! get interested in their lives, show them someone cares, show them why your family is different.
some things we did was, block off a section of our street so everyone could be in one place. we got a firetruck to come for the kids (and james, he got to dress up in all the gear, i got a picture of it to post later). we set out games of washers, had water balloon tosses, sack races. it was old time fun.
well this is long, so i will stop, but start planning a block party and/or bbq for next spring!reach out to the people closest to you.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sounds like so much fun! I was thinking we need to do something like that on our street. I wonder how many people would come. How was your turn out?

Eryn said...

we had a good turnout, but hope for better next year. apparently this used to be an annual thing, but the people who organized it moved, so for two years they havent had one, and in that two years, alot of new people have moved in. almost half of the block.but obviously the lord will bring the ones he wants.

jenica said...

This is such a great idea! Did you just go door to door for the invites or put fliers out?
We have gotten to know most of our neighbors, but we've been praying about taking it to the next level.

Sometimes, I long for a little more privacy, maybe to live in the country, but Andy reminds me of how important it is to be an impact in your neighborhood. You can't do that as easily when you can't see the houses next to you.

Andy's mom does a Christmas brunch with the ladies in her neighborhood. That's another fun idea!

Eryn said...

we made up fliers and put them on doors, we also are having a neighborhood garage sale in october and put that on the same flier. a christmas brunch sounds good! left to myself i would love more privacy too, i am not by nature outgoing(hence my "snobby" reputation) and so need motivation to be social. we are also thinking of having a "bonfire" after trick or treating on halloween.

jenica said...

Haha, I have that same snobby reputation. =)I'm working on it.

Rachel said...

We are having a block party this weekend too! We have some neighbors who are really into organizing stuff like that (and have also organized annual neighborhood garage sales), and we are so excited that they came up with this idea. When we got the flier on our door, I called her immediately and thanked her for organizing it and offered to help. I have been praying for ways to reach our neighbors since I'm home most of the time, and it just seems like a perfect opportunity to get to know some of them. Sometimes it's hard to step out and meet people--it can be a huge effort--but if we could make an impact for Christ, wow, how worth it!!!